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eric262003 Laase Hallstrom's "Once Around" tells the tale about the Bella family, who are a tightened up Italian-American family who reside in Boston, Massachusetts. Joe (Danny Aiello) is the king of his domain who's been married for almost 35 years to his classy wife Marilyn (Gena Rowlands) and have three adult children Tony (Danton Stone), Jan (Laura San Giacomo) and Renata (Holly Hunter). Tony is already married, Jan is about to tie the knot leaving Renata anxious as to when her boyfriend Rob (Griffin Dunne) is going to propose. In a heartbreaking act, Rob confesses that he has no intentions of marrying Renata, so she moves back home to her parents. Renata quits her job as a waitress and travel to the Caribbean where she enrolls in the business of real estate specializing in selling condominiums. There she meets a hotshot real estate agent named Sam Sharpe (Richard Dreyfuss) and is immediately attractive to his high-spirited, confident and spontaneous appearance. He gladly takes her back home to Boston where he is introduced to the Bella family. The Bellas take a while to warm up to this chain-smoking, rather radiant behaving Sam, but after a while, they progressively get adjusted to his unorthodox charisma. However, Jan does not like him which causes friction between both sisters. But after a while, Jan accepts him and gives Renata her blessing. Sam eventually marries Renata and relocates his business from New York to Boston to spend more quality time with Renata and the rest of the Bella clan. At Joe's mother's funeral, Sam sings a tribute song for her, but Marilyn finds it rather disrespectful and rather tasteless and that Sam was the wedge that's tearing her family apart. But they eventually make up afterwards as Renata gives birth to a brand new baby girl. At the christening, Sam suffers a severe heart attack and is rushed to the hospital. Now wheelchair bound, Sam returns home and celebrates Christmas with the Bella clan. Renata goes skating by a frozen lake as Sam and the baby look on. While she is skating Sam dies peacefully in his sleep, with his daughter by his side. At his funeral, Renata gives a eulogy thanking Sam for changing her life for the better and in his honour, Joe leads the procession on a traffic round-about.Most people under the middle-aged demographics might find this story to be uncool and just another clichéd formulaic romantic comedy. The over 30 club might have more tolerance to it, but might refrain from using outstanding applauses which makes this movie quite forgettable. The film was dismissed of any awards and the box office ticket sales was quite low. In general this romantic comedy put in better terms is lost in the shuffle and will never be memorable. Although it is simplistic, it's not very enjoyable and the sad ending will surely turn people off. How I felt about "Once Around" is that it is a character driven film and that the interactions and the responses towards each character is quite riveting. Sam and Renata truly deserve each other and their reasons to fall for each other is what drives people to see this film. Renata loves Sam because he's fun, caring and uplifting in charm, plus he's wealthy. Sam loves Renata because she's intelligent, easy-going and care-free. Sure it takes a while for the other Bellas to get used to him because his charm can cross the line to the point of obnoxiousness and refuses to accept when enough is enough. Over the years, a myriad of romantic comedies offer men and woman who fall in love avoiding romantic interludes and just randomly fall in love. "Once Around" is different being that this couple has a legit purpose why Sam and Renata should belong together. Sam's high-strung behaviour caused his previous wife to divorce him, while Renata's ex-boyfriend refuses to marry her. The two come from different worlds. Renata has no savings or really any career driven ambitions except just to get by and her family is her only social existence and outsiders are not welcome unless they're willing to commit in marriage. There's no doubt that "Once Around" has more good qualities than bad ones. The flaws don't keep this film from being bad. It takes a while for Joe and Marilyn to feel comfortable of Sam's outspoken behaviour. The situation involving Jan's subtle affair with family friend Jim (Greg Germann) was handled oddly. Sam's over-the-top toast at Jim's wedding reception garnered no responses. And at times it felt Sam's outrageous personality was too manipulative for Renata who just seems too easily charmed by him. but these flaws shouldn't hinder your spirits. If you like low-key romantic comedies you have to check this one out.

missygoldstein SPOILERS!!!!!I've seen this movie several times now and if it's ever on I cannot helpmyself from watching it again all the way through as I did 2 nights ago.This is the story of a very close knit Italian family living in Boston(love the accents). The youngest daughter, Renatta (holly hunter) wasjust dumped by her boyfriend who pretty much told her that he'd nevermarry her, and that she's just not good/smart enough. She needs a majorlife change and decides to go down to some tropical island where she isgoing to learn how to sell time share condos. This is where she meetsSam (Richard Dreyfus) who is the epitome a salesman; cocky, confident,obnoxious, and pushy, but also very sweet. He falls for Renattaimmediately showers her with attention, compliments, love, and affectionlike she's never experienced in her life. They fall head over heals inlove with each other, but the problem is her family who does not want toaccept this guy. His brassy, abrasive style does not go over well at allin her parents home and it begins to cause all kinds of problems in thefamily. This is a story of a woman who is able to feel confident and grown upfor the first time in her life as a result of being loved by someoneoutside her family and having the maturity and courage to stand by theman she loves at the risk of losing her family. Because of Sams love sheis able to develop a much better sense of self and identity that givesher the stregth and courage to go on even in the face of tragedy andloss. This film makes me cry buckets every time, bu

Oskado An extremely well-crafted script developing a wide range of individual psychologies within an extended family, together with good casting and acting make this an exceptional film. None of the characters is, to my taste, naturally attractive or charismatic, but as personalities striving to maintain stability in their lives, they are fascinating and fuel a continual dramatic tension. Dreyfuss plays the most enigmatic character, the one "tearing apart" the family, and so has the central role, but his past remains a mystery. When we first encounter him he is alone, a man in his sixties perhaps, staring out over the sea, with behind him a divorce only recently finalized. He delivers a materialistic and self-gratifying speech, with horrifically inappropriate humor, to a flock of aspiring condominium salespeople and proceeds to "fall in love" and quickly marry the immature "baby" member of the film's subject family. But behind his frequently obnoxious salesman's rhetoric and showy possessions, just who is he, and what are his motives? Why did his prior marriage fail? What scars does he bear from the 40s, when he was born in Lithuania and somehow escaped with at least his mother for the States? While looking out over the sea was he contemplating suicide? Was suicide in his mind when he met the simpleton girl on a rooftop with no guard rail and opted to grab on to her for help? His background is eclipsed behind the family's bourgeois Italian-American heritage, as though only Italian ethos can matter, or can be stylishly accepted - so he's given little opportunity to explain. Otherwise, the emptiness and tactlessness of his impromptu speeches seem to underscore an ingrained sense of the absurd and perhaps of despair. Dreyfuss' character has large gaps, gaping scars - like the ragged edges of a piece of a puzzle, a piece that fits perfectly into the poorly developed, ragged edges of the family's youngest and otherwise socially inept and professionally helpless daughter. Together they form a whole - not necessarily people we'd like to know or befriend, but - but they drive the film to a dramatic climax. As said, this film develops the characters of a extended family - not just the two above. This is a film well worth seeing and thinking about - and it seemed to me, just off and on (and in some close-ups) a little Swedish in its sensitivity.

kerrirochelle I loved the way the film portrayed the dynamics in the family. Renata finally falls in love and then has to deal, at first, with her close-knit family's not accepting her husband. Yes, her husband is different and a bit loud....but he has a heart of gold and loves Renata. This movie, for me, was about relationships between members of the family. And about Renata finding love and some independence as she matures through her experiences.